No Elle Beaver this week, and the most painful advice I can give someone about unwanted attention, found over at Chai Latte Diaries: “… then you need to alter how you perceive the situation. This is not an easy task, and if I had to hear this advice, I would want to pull out my own hair and punch myself in the eye…but it’s the only option you have (I’m sorry!): When you start to quicksand into negativity because some man has done what you mention, then you simply must *Stop*It*.

That’s the advice. Do you hate me?”