We could not, for the life of us, take a good photo next to one another. This is the compromise – cropping only ourselves in the photo we like. Vanity is definitely a bed-fellow.

“…people born in these signs have a special charisma. When they get angry, they have a very spectacular way of showing it.”

Would you believe me if I wrote that we paint our feelings?

Didn’t think so.

I love this insanity of Astrology, both Western and Chinese. A Libra-Tiger Woman is, basically, a ball of socialization, energy and opinion. I will not argue. Also, don’t cross us.

Evening with a Pineapple. I made myself a promise that I would be out as often as possible after dark, rather than pickling myself at home. It’s been the right move for this heart.

Sitting at the bar is always fun because my dinner companion is often a book, and if I want conversation, I can tap into it at my choosing. It’s my rule, in fact. I force all of my girlfriends to sit at the bar, too. (For example, Poppy hates it, and I still gleefully shove it down her throat. #Bestieeees).

Frankly, it’s sexy as hell for a couple, too. I hate sitting across from a partner because I am a PDA broad. Hand on thigh, neck, back, forearms. It’s easier and more private when you’re not dragging your sleeves through the sauce between you. Not a metaphor; really should be a metaphor.

A pressing matter came up today – serial relationshipping.

Are you one? Or are you comfortable being alone?

I have never been a serial relationshipist. I like to be alone, unless a man is worth taking time away from my own best company – myself. If I’m lonely, I pick up a hobby, not a man.

I have books. And writing. And colouring. And friends I love and want to spend time with.

It’s an important quality I look for in a man.

I want him to be with me because he wants to be with me, not because he doesn’t want to be with himself, alone. And frankly – if you don’t like your own company, why should I?

Why aren’t men more discerning?

Is this unfair of me? Am I being too much the judgmental asshole? (As ever, inbox me if you’re too shy to comment, Bunnies. I am always open to an opinion change if it makes sense ❤️)

Today, I am grateful for:
1. Comfort foods at comfort spots.
2. Off-the-shoulder all of the things.
3. More cheese on it. Whatever it is, just More cheese on it, please and thank you.

Ottawa | Day 340 | November 5, 2019

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