I’ve received several emails asking me where / how one could experience this with Muslims if they’re not currently living in a Muslim country, or if they don’t have any Muslim friends. The simplest thing to do is to call your local Mosque and find out if there are any programs / initiatives that would allow you to do precisely this.
In Ottawa, the Turkish community has opened their doors to anyone interested in breaking fast with a Muslim family. An absolutely brilliant idea in my opinion because it gives people an opportunity to learn about Islam and see that – contrary to popular opinion – we’re just ordinary people who eat really well and spend a lot of family and community time during this one particular month.
If you are too shy to do this but are still interested in seeing the hubbub that surrounds breaking fast, then I encourage you to take a walk over to Shawarma Palace at 464 Rideau Street on any given night at around 6.30pm. Breaking fast is at around 7pm and so the line up is already firmly established at this point.
Once you reach the counter, the owners (Muslims themselves and only serving hallal food) will be mitwasyeen feekum, which is an Arabic expression meaning that someone has told them to look out for ‘you’ and they’re taking extra special care to do so, in the spirit of Ramadan.
In this instance and because it’s Ramadan, they have placed on their counter top fresh dates and the plates they give you are, quite literally, overflowing with food. It is customary tradition that Muslims break fast with a date and a glass of milk, as I believe this was the habit of our Prophet.
You’ll be surrounded by Muslims of each variety breaking fast together beneath pictures of Lebanon and listening to Arabic music. Although a small place, they have the best Shawarma in Ottawa and the experience itself is golden.
I recommend a chicken shawerma plate – make certain to take your appetite because you’ll surely need it.
To Colleen: Today you’ve decided to fast with the rest of the Muslim world, even though you’re not a Muslimah. You’re in my prayers and your hunger is shared, my friend.
8 Comments:
Anonymous said…
Hi Maha
I’m sorry I haven’t commented in so long. Weird that I should feel compelled to in that last photo post, and about the tree fungus. Then again, I am a biology geek.
However, these posts about Ramadan have moved me quite a lot. It’s a shame that more Christian faiths can’t be more inclusive of non-members. (I can only speak as a Catholic, of course)
I really wish I knew you personally, Maha. Something tells me it would be more like stalking, though, as I’d be following you around, just listening and observing, heh heh.
Espy
Sun Sep 23, 02:44:00 PM
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Anonymous said…
With regrads to the question Maha addressed about breaking fast with Muslims, there is a beautiful interfaith fast planned across the USA for October 7.. people of all faiths fasting together with Muslims to pray for the end of the war in Iraq.
check it out
http://www.interfaithfast.org
They all plan to break their fast together .. check details on the web.. My friend and I are considering something like this for next year in Ottawa joint with a local non-Muslim congrergation in public places (less initimate than the Turkish initiative but also likely less intimidating). Baby steps but as Margret Meed said.. never underestimate what a small group of motivated people can do to change the world.. indeed this is the only way anything has ever changed the world..
Sun Sep 23, 03:54:00 PM
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just a girl said…
ESPY! What a lovely lovely lovely surprise. You hide and then peek out at the most unexpected times…always welcome!!
Thank you for the disgusting notice that I was playing with fungus…I’m not so sure I should’ve asked 😉 (Can you tell if that’s a lamb or a goat??). So…this fungus thing – how and what and where would it have come from?
Please feel free to stalk me any time you feel the need to do so – it would be both a pleasure and an honour!!!! (I have a feeling we’d have some pretty hilarious moments…)
Anonymous – thank you for providing this information; I’ve pulled it up to the front page because I think it’s an important initiative. Do you have a name?
xox
m
Sun Sep 23, 05:08:00 PM
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just a girl said…
p.s. to Anonymous – I would like to be involved in helping you plan for next year’s Ottawa initiative, please (if you need volunteers?)
Sun Sep 23, 05:10:00 PM
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Anonymous said…
Maha! 🙂
Thank you for the invitation. I hope we do hang out at some point. E-mail is still what it was, I really have to remember to check more often. Have been spending a lot of time away from it!
Alas, it’s a pretty common fungus, but you don’t have to worry about it affecting your health, unless you’re allergic to that specific species. To be honest, even the tree is probably largely unaffected in its general health.
That was definitely a lamb. I did not see any horn buds. 🙂
xoxox hugs and kisses and thank you for the interfaith info.
Espy
Sun Sep 23, 09:41:00 PM
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Maria Calvo said…
There’s nothing like this in my area so I’m calling the mosque to see if I can do this there. Do I have to wear anything or look a certain way??
I’m going to fast that day too so I can feel what it’s like. I’m so excited!
Maria
Tue Sep 25, 11:06:00 AM
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Colleen said…
MAHA I DID IT! I DID IT! I FASTED FOR TWO ENTIRE DAYS!!!!
I can’t begin to tell you how fantastic it feels, because I didn’t have to do it but I did it anyway! What a lesson in self control it is, I can’t, I mean, to do this for an entire month! I bow down to your strength my friend, I am so proud of your ability to do this!!
It was such a wonderful feeling for me to break the fast. Just sitting and waiting and know that I DID IT!!!!!!
On my second day, I also took five seperate occasions to sit and reflect. Like when you pray, I took the time to sit back and reflect on life and my place in it.
My children were very supportive and the second day, my daughter fasted with me. It was a beautiful experience to share.
Thank you so much for opening so many doors, Maha. You are a treasure!
Colleen
Wed Sep 26, 10:04:00 AM
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Maria Calvo said…
COLLEEN CONGRATULATIONS!
Thu Sep 27, 04:09:00 PM