Sometimes, I would really like to say:
“I un-friended you because your ego-driven behaviour is so very unfriendly.
I un-friended you because 9 out of 10 times, I believe you’re lying, and I have walked away from communicating with you feeling like shit.
I un-friended you because I don’t believe you’re as nice as you think you are.
I un-friended you is not passive aggressive, but rather hard-core extremely aggressive. (In case you were wondering.)”
New Year’s Resolution? No more ego-driven “friends” who behave in unfriendly manner.
I recommend you do the same.
Yup! If people can’t be friendly in real life, there’s no need for fake social network “friending”. COULDN’T AGREE MORE!!
Happy New Year, Maha!
Thank you for another amazing year of intelligent, hilarious, andd uplifting reading. -lily
Amen, sister.
Amen.
No need to carry even the hint of suspected unfriendly into a new year.
Hugs,
Maria
I am surprised you would even friend an unfriendly person! Good for you for not being too scared to remove them.
Happy New Year to the prettiest girl I know =)
Steve
1st rule of life: don’t annoy a woman with a blog.
Maybe don’t annoy either gender with a blog!
“I un-friended you is not passive aggressive, but rather hard-core extremely aggressive. (In case you were wondering.)”” Classic you!
Love ya!
when everytime you walk away feeling like shit from a “friend” then i am guessing that they’re the passive aggressive ones. out with the old and in with the new, canuck! you did good.
I don’t remember where I first saw this, but I fell in love with it and will make the best attempt to live by it. http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/
Lily — Agreed 100%
Happy new year to you too, and thank you a million times over for the time you give to my chitter chatter on this place xxo
Maria — Yes!
Steve — Well. Sometimes it takes a while to face the reality that some people are more work than they’re worth. I have no problem cutting ties only because I know how generously I give to those whom I do call “friends.” It’s one of my few good qualities 🙂
(+ thank you for calling me pretty!)
Colleen — Hah! Right!! So funny!
Chantalis — Not passive aggressive, but rather someone with whom every single interraction isn’t about the interraction itself, but rather their baggage. It’s sad, and I’m not interested in being a therapist to a person who doesn’t possess emotional intelligence, but is instead overrun by an ego so massive they make Kanye look like a humble little kid.
Spurchick! Read that too, and thought it was hilarious (and with excellent advice).
xxo