A: Apparently, it’s me. (Only I just learned the difference between Whose and Who’s and that there is no Who’se. Please don’t be scared.)

Many of you amazing readers actually take the time to not only read this place, but to also think about what I have written and to fire off emails asking further clarification, and / or over-sharing your own lives and situations.

I love this more than you can imagine, because I too am an over-sharer when I feel I am in the presence of people I trust. Your emails mean that you trust me, and for that I am ever grateful. Thank you.

Most of your emails are about relationship trauma. And from my private emails to you, several of my best articles have come to the fore.

Time and again, you have recommended that I begin answering these questions publicly, sharing my answers with all readers rather than simply: you, in private.

So, this is how it starts. And “this” is a new category titled Who’s Your Know It All (me), where I answer your Qs. I will never share your name or your email with the greater audience, but only the email you send my way, so that people have context to my responses. Also, your photo.**

I may be contacted here.

Thank you for your trust and your love, I can’t express enough how much it means to me. (And barring the extension of sexual favours in response, I offer you virtual cupcakes instead.)

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** No, not really.